My day is one week away and my brother in-laws still havent gotten fitted yet for their tux what the hell are they waiting for jesus himself. everything else is done and paid for oh wait centerpieces and programs need to be finished but everything else is done there is pics of my dress and mock up centerpiece on here somewhere i dont know how to post so no new pics but my big baby is driving me crazy when he should be driving his brothers crazy about those tux which are due to be delivered this wednesday for our sat oct 11 wedding eveytime we ask them when are they going to be fitted their always waitng for the brother from maryland to come his been here since last saturday now what? and one bm who was the very last one to be fitted for her dress and who i put up the down payment for and it took her three months to pay me 87 dollars back now who has missed two dress fittings and owes the bs thirty dollars for that now says she doesnt have the money to pick up her dress 100.00 total, i told girlfriend dont look at me it took u three months to pay me 87.00 hell no sugar so i had my final fitting today and owner tells me this bm still hasnt come for her dress no call no nada and owner says just tell her to pay me the 70. bal for the dress and dont worry about the 30. for two missed appts there is no time for alteration and she has to take the dress as is how about that!
Posts: 396
From: St. Thomas, VI now residing in Baltimore
Re: PEBBLES BLOG
Posted on: 10/05/2008 02:41 PM
That's just trifling! Please try to hold onto your sanity, Pebbles. I don't understand why some people act like they've never been married before or never been in somebody's wedding before or never been to a wedding. Trifling!
I'm so sorry to hear that your going through such foolishness @ the very last min. From what I read your not the only one, just keep your focus on what matters & thats marrying your FH & enjoying your day!
thanks ladies the brothers are suposed to go tomorrow evening to be fitted we'll see it just buggs me out because dh will jump as soon as one of his 6 brothers call and this one thing that he has asked them to do is like impossible for them to do the tailor from barry's came to our home 7-24-08 and the two best men, our two sons and my two nephews were fitted no brothers the whole tux with shoes is 141.00 from july to now no fittings for his brothers and the company comes to your home for the fittings drops off tux and picks them up if you miss the fitting you have to go out to the store and if on wed we dont have total money due when they arrive with the tux guess what they leave no ones tux everyone will have to go to the store. i sure hope if they go tomorrow they will pay the entire 141. and not just the 30.deposit pray for me ladies.
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From: virginia beach, VA (hometown and wedding in NYC)
Re: PEBBLES BLOG
Posted on: 10/06/2008 02:21 AM
Dang Pebbles one week away time flies. Everything will work out you know how men are. Please girl I had to pay for one groomsmen and then he turned around and never returned the suit. Hope that doesn't scare you but that's just shows you that some guys are just triffling.
Pebbles, don't stress yourself out. Guys get in no hurry for nothing. I'm sure they are going to step up to the plate.
We had one of our guys tell us one week before the wedding that he couldn't afford his tux, but thank GOD we were able to find someone else to fill in. But I wouldn't worry to much because you know how men are. They love when the think they're looking good ...The chance of being all Gee'd up having their picture taken, being videoed as they enter, having the ladies see them.... Oh Yeah, I wouldn't worry about them to much.
ok ladies noone went to get fitted today tomorrow the store is closed and weds is absolutely the last day they can get fitted and that is the very very last and then they have to go back on fri to pick up their tuxs for alterations cleaning and pressing of sorts also the banquet manager just tells me no one will there friday to sign for the chaircovers so this morning i had to call chaircover express and ask that they be shipped to my home in which they are due to arrive on thursday or friday and wedding is sat like i have nothing better to do than to sit around waiting for chaircovers for two days. I would really hate to have to beat this broad down for 665.00 but i most certainly will.
wow Pebbles! I am so sorry to hear of all of the "issues" that are popping up at the last minute...just know that it all will work out for you...I know how frustrating it is, but remember, the end result is you & your man will be one!!! :)
Posts: 1885
From: Maryland, Florida after we're married!!
Re: PEBBLES BLOG
Posted on: 10/07/2008 01:00 PM
Wow Pebbles, I'm sorry that you're as stressed as you are. I wish there was something I could say that would make it all disappear, but unfortunately, all hell do break loose, even in the very best of circumstances. Breathe sister, just breathe and let it go. God will take care of all of it.
Congrats Pebbles YOUR GETTIN MARRIED! lol I say that to mean keep calm! I haven't seen a wedding yet that didn't have ATLEAST one issue! Trust it will work out it will.
As for those people in your bridal party who are unprepared, you are better then me because names will start to get crossed off!!! And be careful of those who's clothes aren't fitted properly, if you are keeping them in your wedding party, you dont want your pictures ruined by that, they already messing up one thing, dont let it ruin something else!
Ladies they were finally fitted tonight thank god that is over i checked my tracking number with ups for my chair covers and they are due to arrive tomorrow i wont be fully happy until they are hear two more days to go.
thanks ladies and special thanks pam for posting my dress and centerpiece the centerpieces is still the same but it haspink acrylic ice gems and four of the top flowers ontop of the pink gems, the limos can be seen at www.dg-limos.com mine is the onyx edition denali and dh is the onyx edition chrysler 300 the hall is www.commonwealthclub.net and as soon as i find the bm dresses i will post that as well thanks again my vibride sisters much love.
Your more than welcome Pebbles. I hope you can find some time to pamper yourself before Saturday. You've been really worked up the last few days and if at all possible, please squeeze a little relaxation in for yourself. Even if it's nothing more than sitting back and soaking your feet while listening to your favorite tunes. Take some time for you to unwind.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
I most certainly will pam tomorrow morning with my manicure and pedicure.Ineed desperately after the week I've had my coordinator dropped my programs of while i was out this evening her dh works all day long with computers so she offered to do the programs well he dh did the programs,why were 50 of them printed on the side there isn't a border on how do u do that and she didnt even call me and tell me and ontop of that he just printed the outside cover there is nothing on the inside, my printer is acting a fool it wont suck up the program paper what the heck am I gonna do do u think i could take the to staples and they could print the inside for me? and i dint find the dresses www.jordanfashions.com style 301 bm sable mhs chocolate.
Posts: 1885
From: Maryland, Florida after we're married!!
Re: PEBBLES BLOG
Posted on: 10/10/2008 07:42 AM
Ok Pebbles, just breathe. If that were me, I would make my planner take the programs back and redo them herself, even if it took her all night long because it was her stupid ass husband who messed it all up!!! I'm sorry, but I'm so peeved at this woman, who calls herself a coordinator. How dare she bring something to you without double checking that it was done to perfection?
That being said, yes, if you have everything on a disc or on a flash drive, you could take it to staples and ask them to print and cut them for you. The bad news it that it's additional cost that you shouldn't have to incur. So, don't panic, take your disc to staples and ask them to print them out, but you must give them instructions on what type of paper you want them printed on and ask them to cut the paper for you as well. Then, hot foot it to Michaels and get yourself some ribbons or maybe you could use the ones that this witch allowed her husband to mess up and reuse them. Make emergency calls to your bridal party and ask them for help. When they get there, have some drinks ready, some quick snacks and start an assembly line and you'll have it done in no time at all.
That was so unprofessional of your coordinator, but it will all turn out okay.
ok ladies i finally got some pics from some folks some ar a bit blury but when pro pics come in you ladies will be the first to know!!!!Now yall know i cant post pics so they can be seen at www.tinypic.com catina7850@msn.com and password is talia8 under our wedding happy looking.
those things were out the door right after dinner and if you saw the one one the mantle behind our minister i changed them a bit from the one that was posted here i added pink ice gems and some flowers atop of the gems i think they were hot and so did my guess everyone wanted one thanks diva.
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