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MzTajsia Super Diva Posts: 272 From: New York Metro	Does it feel different???! Posted on: 08/07/2007 09:48 AM I keep getting this question.... I am not sure how it is supposed to feel?! I am just getting used to writing my married name instead of my madien, When I look at my DH he doesn't look different. Can someone please describe to me what I am supposed to feel. Introducng the new Mrs. Durrant!!!
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Bumblebeekee

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Posts: 1762
From: Tallahassee, FL (Originally Ft. Lauderdale, FL)

Re: Does it feel different???!

Posted on: 08/07/2007 10:52 AM

I really don't feel different. I am still getting used to being called Mrs. Gaskin and doing my new signature....But I don't feel that much different. That doesn't mean life hasn't changed for me...new car, new livng situation (sharing space for the first time), sharing things, "new identity", new considerations as far as managing money and bills, etc. But I still feel like me. Surely the love grows and grows and may be more meaningful, but....nothing else here.
Maybe someone else can share in the feeling different part....
Oh yeah, when people ask me, I can say its a good feeling. Happy feeling....But its not like you were not happy before...So I just say it feels good:)

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pamcrow Vibride Queen Posts: 1394 From: Upstate, NY	Re: Does it feel different???! Posted on: 08/07/2007 03:12 PM For me, there's no difference between now and before. Maybe because we were already living together, I don't know. "I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
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housewife147 Vibride Queen Posts: 2421	Re: Does it feel different???! Posted on: 08/07/2007 05:30 PM I was just about to say that Pam. I dont think I am going to feel any diffrent because I have been with my fh going on eleven years, we have lived togethor 6 of those years. And I am already referred to by Mrs. Blount.
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soontobebride

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Posts: 762
From: Charlotte, NC

Re: Does it feel different???!

Posted on: 08/09/2007 09:52 AM

I'm happy...but I don't necessarily feel different. I like some other women on here will have to practice signing my new last name....but that's about it. I love having him there fixing things....and having dinner ready for me when he's off..and just him being there all the time.....but as far as feeling like I've changed in any way...not really

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SexiDiva20

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Posts: 66
From: Chicago, IL

Re: Does it feel different???!

Posted on: 08/09/2007 03:22 PM

I'm so glad that you all say that b/c I was beginning to wonder if I was wrong for not feeling "differently"... On the contrary, I would say that we handle situations differently now... Like, when we have a disagreement, we'll talk about until we come to common grounds and I think we inform each other more often...

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